"Expectation is the root of all heartaches"

Read this on Unimas Confession, and the first thing that came to my mind was,

"adik, you are dreaming. There is noooooo way you can get a guy 

exactly like how you want it."

Especially the last part,

"NO SMOKINGGGG :)"

Quite (let me emphasize again, QUITE) impossible to find a guy 

that does.

Hey, even Aaron Aziz smokes okay?

AARON AZIZ,

hero Malaya tu. Tak caye?

Google lah.

Anyways, perhaps this girl should "muhasabah diri" before coming out 

with these kind of statement.

Not to say you cannot dream of your dream guy.

It's not wrong.

I do it all the time.

It's just that, 

if your jodoh were to be someone TOTALLY opposite from what you want,

kan dah jilat ludah sendiri?

As Steve Harvey (the author of Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man) said,

"women have stopped setting the bar high"

Which then lead to the statement above,

EXPECTATION IS THE ROOT OF ALL HEARTACHES.