This complicated thing call RELATIONSHIP

Anyone can be in a relationship, 

but that doesn't mean that they are in love with each other.

In most relationship, 

there will always be the person who love too much,

and another who takes the other person's love for granted.

I come to realize that,

being in a relationship doesn't mean that you must have

the most handsome man,

or the most beautiful woman;

the richest man or the richest woman;

love is about knowing the imperfection of the person you love,

but you still love for who they are.

Only then, your relationship is meaningful.

Just because you are outgoing, doesn't mean you will get a person

who is outgoing too.

You might get a partner who is less outgoing than you are.

Just because you are impatient, doesn't mean you'll get an 

impatient partner too.

World War III will erupt if that happens.

Just because you enjoy cooking, doesn't mean your partner

will enjoy it too.

For all we know, your partner may never even entered a kitchen

their entire life.

My point is this...

why I said that love is about knowing the imperfection of the person 

you love, is because that in the relationship,

you will learn and grow with each other.

Just because you are opposites, doesn't mean you don't get along well.

Somehow, 

what qualities you have might be the qualities that your partner don't posses;

and the qualities that you don't posses, you partner may have those.

And this my dear,

is what they call COMPLEMENT EACH OTHER.

Like the husband of one of my favourite blogger, Audrey (of fourfeetnine) said 

in his wedding speech

"We are one of the most imperfect couples out here...

but we think we are perfect of each other."

There is no such thing as the perfect love,

but everyone deserves to be love.