I am at this age where I'm "supposedly" have a potential life partner in had,

and I am supposed to plan my wedding and prepare to get married.

Then after the wedding, I am supposed to bear children.

Then after that, take care of my kids.

Then, watch them grow.

However, I am nowhere near figuring that out.

Heck, I am still struggling with what to wear to office tomorrow (because preparing early avoids being late in the morning hahaha).

And I am supposed to figure out about my life partner? 

To have their presence in my life now?

I understand the fear that some parents (or grandparents, for that matter) that when their child (grandchildren) reaches a certain age and they have yet to have a potential partner in their life, 

But sometimes, I feel that some parents do not try to understand their children's position; especially in today's world where everything is overpriced and the value of our money is shrinking. 

How is one expected to build a new life with loans to begin with? 

Personal loan - for a lavish wedding to impress the many people that you don't even know 

(I'm using my culture as an example; not intended to hurt anybody out there); and most of the time they are the relatives that you don't even know. 

Credit cards - to buy the things that you might not need today 

Perhaps that's the reason why we heard of so many cases of divorces in this era.

Because they feel so pressured of their parents' nagging; their grand uncles/aunties *mind you, that you only met ONCE a year, during certain FESTIVE SEASON* question of "When is your turn?" etc.

I have this friend, who got married because she feels that she is getting "old". 

And when she got pregnant, her husband still continues to go clubbing until the wee hours of the morning, just like those days when they were still dating.

Except this time, he goes ALONE. 

He can't even take a day off just to accompany her for her routine check up.

Instead, he asked, "Is it necessary for you to go check up every few weeks? You're pregnant. So?"

The nerve of that guy. *rolls eyes*

Never underestimate the power of a woman's curiousity to find out on things. This conversation proves it:


Me: He drives a Myvi kan?
Sonia: Yes. *smiling*
Me: He drives a WHITE Myvi kan?
Sonia: Yes. How do you know?
Me: Sonia, never underestimate the power of a woman's curiousity. Especially if her name is Marcella. If I could, sampai ke lubang cacing pun I will go and look for it.
Sonia: Hahahaha.

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So I was having my lunch alone today *insert the foreveralone.jpeg image here* at KFC because I was craving. Damn period make the hormones go crazy and crave for food.

As I was seated at my seat, there was this family, consist of a mother, daughter and grandmother seated across my table. The girl was holding a monopod, trying to take a selfie with her grandmother who is busy eating the KFC chicken. My first thought, "girls, selfie and monopod. What else is new?" And I continued eating. But after a while, *cue in fifteen minutes later*, this girl is still taking selfie, from different angles. My second thought, "perlu kah show ngan dunia you eat at KFC? KFC jer pun." And continued eating.

I am not sure they were speaking in what languange, but my wild guess was they were talking in Orang Ulu language. I heard the mother did said something to the daughter, maybe not to selfie too much and eat her food. I guess la.

Half an hour passed, and the girl was still holding her monopod, taking God knows how many selfie she took. By that time, I can't help myself but to give dirty look because I was annoyed at the girl hahaha sorry I can't help myself. I mean, can't you just be in the moment and live your life? Perlu kah every few seconds selfie? That's the problem with today's generation; eveything also want to document online. Pergi jamban pun mok selfie. Goodness gracious. Maybe I sound like an old soul, but there are things that you should keep to yourself. And that is what you call PRIVACY.

Young kids, if you don't know what's the meaning of "PRIVACY", look it up in the dictionary. And another thing, don't selfie too much in the public. Do you know how ridiculous it looks?




Nah. Belanja satu selfie. Hahaha.