Rachel: Yer. So this is like, a family reunion or something? Haha. Did you ask how your ex is doing?
Me: Tsk. Haha. No need lah mang. I'm happy now, and I know he's happy with *insert ex-current's gf name here*. The funny thing is, actually yesterday/the day before yesterday I dreamt of him. I don't miss him. That's why I'm surprised that I actually dreamt of him.
Rachel: Haha. Maybe he just want to interframe in your dream. Like Golding (as in Henry Golding). That's good mang. Like prof said, let bygone be bygone. I love that quote. Haha.
Me: If he really wants to interframe, agak-agak lah. Why you want to interframe in my dream, HIS EX? For a moment, I was stunned. Haha. He had become my 'bygone' for a while now. So I can actually say his name easily, but it doesn't mean that I miss him.
Rachel: Hahaha. Well, you know dreams. They can choose the most random people to be in your dream. Like last night, I dream of *name is withheld here for privacy purposes*. It's even more illogical that the person misses me. Hahaha.

If we’re going through a stressful time in our lives and seem to have more on our proverbial plate than we ever asked for – our mind will take us to a “simpler time” – if an ex happens to be there, it isn’t necessarily a compliment to them.  They just happened to be in the picture at the time.